Online dating awkwardness thesaurus
PUA culture deals with this pervasive fear by in a multitude of ways.
The most obvious is the use of the 10 scale – referring to women in field reports (effectively “after action” reports of how their night went, posted to various forums and sub-reddits) as HB (for “hot body”) 7 or 8 instead of by name.
Some PUA schools have specific subsets of tactics for landing these wiley 10s, as though big-game hunters trying to bring down a king cheetah instead of your run of the mill gazelle or okapi. If treating women like points seems as though it’s a form of gamification of dating… Part of the point of many Pick Up schools is to reduce dating to a formula… Pick up is often referred to as “dating cheat codes” – a way of circumventing the “rules” of the game in order to get what you want with minimal effort.
Much of this comes from the use of canned routines and concepts like the “emotional progression model” from classic Mystery Method/Love Systems – it’s human interaction as a flow-chart. When she responds, you move to routine B or C; if it’s not working out as you’d hoped, you have back-up routines and material to fall back on – “boyfriend destroyers”, anti-AMOG tactics, and the like.
They’re just being themselves; they don’t know how to articulate it into anything other than “I guess women just like me”.
It’s incredibly frustrating to be a young man That’s where the pick-up community comes in – it’s filling an economic niche, a void in the marketplace.
On Wednesday, a Kickstarter project for a self-published book on picking up women entitled “Above The Game” started rocketing across blogs and Twitter. Ken Hoinsky shared excerpts from the upcoming book on r/seduction… As soon as the controversy broke, he took them down, but the Google cache is still available.
The author, a regular poster on r/seduction, a sub-Reddit dedicated to exchanging tips on meeting and hooking up with women, was looking for ,000. Some samples: Never, ever, ever, wait for a SIGN before you escalate!
She wants to be desired, but the circumstances need to be right. The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill utilizes an IP address reputation scoring system and their database is reporting that your internet address has been flagged for malicious activity.This database is updated frequently via their internal processes.As I’ve said many times before, men are socialized to believe that to be masculine is to fuck; the more notches on your metaphorical bedpost, the more of a man you are. If he wanted to get better at basketball, it would seem like the most normal thing in the world to find a trainer to help him improve his skills, build up his fitness and zero in on his weaknesses.At the same time however, our society teaches us that for men, being good with women is a binary state; either you’re skilled at talking to them, interacting with them and seducing them or you aren’t. But to want to improve at one of the most fundamental areas of human life is shameful.